Our Kinky Gift Guide

We’ve put together a selection of queer-owned and/or sex positive local products, shops, and online shops that we love. And we always feel better supporting local businesses or other sex educators!

LUNA MATATAS, ONLINE SHOP

Our friend Luna is an incredible sex and pleasure educator with an awesome selection of unique gifts including her newly developed pegging dildo named “Bubbles” (we love it!) and toy bags, tees, hoodies, coffee mugs, stickers with sayings like her trademarked “Peg the Patriarchy”, etc. Buy her stuff!

SHE BOP, SEX TOY BOUTIQUE

We love our local woman-owned sex shop! With two local locations this is a great spot for a last minute gift or kinky care package. They also have a really great online selection and virtual classes.

AS YOU LIKE IT, PLEASURE SHOP

As You Like It is an eco-conscious, gender-inclusive pleasure shop that honors the diverse desires of our community. With two locations in Eugene & Ashland and a great online selection, you can buy online knowing you’re supporting local Oregon small biz.

BOOK: KINK FOR THE CURIOUS

Our fearless co-founder Natasha Strange wrote and designed this playful workbook full of great information for the curious kinkster, complete with color pages, puzzles, and games. This book makes a great gift for the holidays. Buy your copy here!

BOOK: UNFUCK YOUR KINK

Dr. Faith G. Harper debunks myths, explains the science behind why we like what we like, and discusses how to engage safely, shamelessly, and satisfyingly in BDSM, pornography, fantasies, role-play, and fetishes both common and rare.

BOOKS: TRISTAN TAORMINO

Tristan taught at Sub Rosa this year and it was such a delight to have her. Her books are foundational, from Opening Up, the Feminist Porn Book, The Ultimate Guide to Kink, The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex, and so many more (including her new memoir) – books are great gifts!

RIVERQUEER LEATHERWORK

We are obsessed with this new chastity design by riverqueer. They have a great selection of collars, harnesses, and make gorgeous custom pieces. Stay queer and buy here!

SWITCH LEATHER CO.

Switch Leather Co. is a queer-owned company based in Portland, Oregon. Every harness is made by hand in their studio in SE Portland. Their stuff is super high quality and beautiful. Buy their gear!

MÖBIUS LEATHERWORKS

Möbius Leatherworks has a special place in our hearts and dungeon because a friend commissioned a GORGEOUS “Queen of Thorns” paddle from them. We love it. Get truly high quality and beautiful custom work from them and you wont be disappointed. Order custom work here.

SEAGRAPE APOTHECARY

For our witchy kinksters we highly recommend Seagrape Apothecary for gorgeous oils, aftercare bathing rituals, and luscious candles, and a great selection of books and tarot decks. 

CBD AROUSAL OIL

FORIA has been crafting cannabis-based products for women’s health since 2012, with a commitment to all-natural & organic practices. Based in Medford, OR. 

DATE NIGHT IN THE DUNGEON

If you’re seeking to gift experiences over things, you can always get a Gift Certificate for a rental or overnight in our space. Date night with dinner and a dungeon?

Sub Rosa was designed from the ground-up to be a luxe kinky oasis, a fully-equipped fetish space available to rent for personal play and exploration, content creation, fetish education, and personal photography. 

Learn more about Gift Certificates here.