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July 16th, 6pm-9pm
Sub Rosa Social

The Sub Rosa Social at Wayfinder Beer expands the opportunity for people to connect with the community created around our femdom-led space and classes. Join us at this purely social event, no kink play whatsoever.

Wayfinder has a great food menu as well as lots of NA beverages and a full bar (you pay for your drinks and food). Vanilla (or vanilla adjacent) attire is required – this is a public venue with children and strangers nearby. Please be respectful of the environment and the space.The parking lot across the street from Wayfinder becomes conditional parking for the restaurant at 6pm. Wayfinder has accessible access with a ramp going up to the restaurant and inside to access lower seating levels as well.

Wayfinder Beer, 304 Southeast 2nd Avenue

RSVP on Fetlife


July 25th, 8pm-close
Fifty Shades of Shut the Fuck Up

Mistress Viola Parker, with head DM Maeve McBride, present their monthly kinky play party celebrating all things FemDom! Don’t miss this epic social event for femdoms, femme tops, and the individuals who serve and worship them.

This month’s theme is PRIDE WAS A RIOT, with special guest Mx. Pucks A’Plenty! Celebrating the Riot that is Pride (now in July in Portland) is more important than ever as LGBTGIA rights are continually being threatened! Show up in your rainbow riot gear, protest shirts, or paint yourself with rainbows, trans flags…show your PRIDE in whatever way is best for YOU. As always, the themes for STFU are not mandatory. But the dress code is! Find more information on the dress code and party details on the Sanctuary event page or on Fetlife.

Sanctuary, 33 NW 9th, Portland

Learn more and RSVP on Fetlife

COVID Safety

Masks are optional for events at Sub Rosa (this is subject to change depending on COVID rates).
We are moving away from requiring vaccination card checks at our events at Sub Rosa. Some visiting educators ask vaccination checks, so this will depend on the class. This policy is subject to change.


Unfortunately, our space is located in an old industrial building that poses a challenge to accessibility. There are stairs to the front door and a flight of stairs up to our unit, there is no passenger elevator. We apologize for this issue and recognize that the impact on people with disabilities is felt deeply in our community. We are making considered efforts to improve this issue, offer virtual classes, and ensure that events outside of our space are always planned in accessible venues. If there are other accommodations we can make please reach out. Events & classes can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 48 hours in advance in the notes section of your order and email us at

Sub Rosa offers reduced-rate tickets to each of our classes for black, indigenous, and people of color (BIPOC) first and foremost and those experiencing financial hardship or limited income as well. Please reach out to to request these ticket order codes.

Recorded Classes

Come Correct

Come Correct: How to Approach, Serve & Dazzle Dominant Femmes

Natasha Strange and Viola Parker present a mini charm school for those with submissive inclinations, who desire to meet and serve dominant femmes. We coach eager newbies on the fine art of kinky networking, both in-person and online (with a stronger focus on how to better connect online during social distancing). Purchase on Gum Road.

Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion in Kink

Marla Renee Stewart, MA (she/her) is a professional sexologist, intimacy/relationship/sex coach, speaker, and author. She is the owner of Velvet Lips, a sexuality education company, as well as Contract Liberation, a company focused on research for non-profit groups.

In this workshop, she helps bring the values of diversity, equity, and inclusion to the kink and bdsm communities. This workshop and pdf combo is useful for bdsm educators, dungeon moderators, adult performers, and anyone in the scene. Purchase on Gum Road.

Marla Renee Stewart MA

Erotica Botanica

Erotica Botanica: Kinky Plants for Pleasure, Pain, and Passion

Maeve McBride (she/they) is a clinical herbalist, green witch, and educator who has been exploring the intersections of kink, sacred sex, plants, and magick for nearly 20 years.

Green witches do it better. This class introduces you using plants for kinky play. Topics covered include the use of herbal aphrodisiacs to assist with relaxation and dropping in, sensation and impact play toys using natural materials, natural first aid and aftercare, botanical sexual health support, and herbs to help prevent or mitigate the symptoms of drop. Purchase on Gum Road.

Lock It Up! A conversation about chastity and orgasm control

Princessa Natasha Strange has used chastity and orgasm control as a fun way to increase desire and devotion in willing bottoms, for most of her nearly 30 year career. This 2-hour class covers short term chastity, long term chastity, as well as fun stroke games to to play during genital wellness checks. Purchase on Gum Road.