FemDom Bootcamp

Natasha and Viola have brought back their monthly Femdom Bootcamps. These three-hour events will begin with a brief discussion on consent and how to safely practice and negotiate with both longtime partners and newbies. After some discussion, we will turn up the music and use the gorgeous space and gear at Sub Rosa for some live demos, experiential practice and play, and group coaching. Natasha and Viola will be circulating to train the attendees on how to use the toys, gear, and will be teaching techniques and giving tips. All attendees will need to register for a ticket. These events always sell out so grab your spot ASAP.

Thursday February 2nd. 7-10pm Limited spots available.
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Thursday March 2nd. 7-10pm Limited spots available.
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Upcoming Classes + Events

Unleash Your Inner Minx

This is an 8 week online course lead by Natasha Strange that is part education, a whole lot of confidence building, and a community of other curious femmes and thems like yourself for support on your journey. 

Each week will include a 90 minute conversation about the topic of the week (recorded in case you miss it!) + 60 minutes of office hours as well as guest speakers; from other dominatrices, kinky femmes, and submissives who will answer your burning questions about what it is that turns them on about their fetish. 

You’re looking for a place to start and this is it!

Classes and events are added regularly, so check back often! We strive to create a space, even online, where people feel free to ask questions and explore. Not seeing a class you want? Let us know!

We are also excited to announce our new partnership with Bloom Community! Bloom is an app that helps people meet around sex-positive, kinky, or queer community events. Bloom is built for people looking for connection who share their community values: consent, communication, and respect. Bloom Community is women-owned and a great way to find online and in-person events and pals near you.

Classes on Demand!

Come Correct

Come Correct: How to Approach, Serve & Dazzle Dominant Femmes

Natasha Strange and Viola Parker present a mini charm school for those with submissive inclinations, who desire to meet and serve dominant femmes. We will focus on coaching eager newbies on the fine art of kinky networking, both in-person and online (with a stronger focus on how to better connect online during social distancing). Purchase on Gum Road.

Mindfuckery for Femmes

Bondage and impact play are fun and all, but have you ever really fucked with someone’s mind? Mindfuckery is the (not so) simple act of setting expectations, and purposely missing them.  It’s smoke and mirrors. It’s subtle. It’s outrageous. 

Princessa Natasha Strange will guide you through what is, and isn’t mindfuckery, discuss why people might be into it, the different types of mindfuckery, aftercare for the thoroughly mindfucked, as well as what to do when things go sideways. Because they will.


Kinky Home Ec: Intro to Service Submission

Kinky Home Ec is an ongoing educational series which deep dives into the “how-to” and “why” of kink based service skills, from leather care to massage techniques to basic DIY repairs and beyond. Join our instructor Mischief Morningstar in conversation with Mistress Viola and Princessa Natasha Strange. This is the first in a series of classes focusing on service submission. Most will be hosted in person at Sub Rosa. Purchase on Gum Road.

Erotica Botanica: Kinky Plants for Pleasure, Pain, and Passion

Green witches do it better. This class introduces you to the myriad of sexual adventures enhanced by using plants for kinky play. Topics covered include the use of herbal aphrodisiacs to assist with relaxation and dropping in, sensation and impact play toys using natural materials, natural first aid and aftercare, botanical sexual health support, and herbs to help prevent or mitigate the symptoms of drop.Taught by Maeve McBride (she/they), a clinical herbalist, green witch, and educator who has been exploring the intersections of kink, sacred sex, plants, and magick for nearly 20 years.

Erotica Botanica

Marla Renee Stewart MA

Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion in Kink

Marla Renee Stewart, MA (she/her) is a professional sexologist, intimacy/relationship/sex coach, speaker, and author. She is the owner of Velvet Lips, a sexuality education company, as well as Contract Liberation, a company focused on research for non-profit groups.

In this workshop, she helps bring the values of diversity, equity, and inclusion to the kink and bdsm communities. This workshop and pdf combo is useful for bdsm educators, dungeon moderators, adult performers, and anyone in the scene.

. Purchase on Gum Road.

Mistress Viola’s FemDom Play Party

50 Shades of STFU happens monthly every fourth Thursday at Sanctuary Club Downtown. More information about the dress code and rules is on Mistress Viola’s website. You can network with others attendees in the Fetlife group here, or follow Mistress Viola on Fetlife to RSVP and see who else is attending. Doors at 8pm, performances around 9pm, tastings all night with experienced dommes, and more! $15.

Proof of vaccination is currently required for all in-person events, masks are optional for events at Sub Rosa. Events & classes can be ASL interpreted upon request. Please request interpretation at least 48 hours in advance in the notes section of your order AND email us at Sub Rosa offers a limited number of reduced-rate tickets to each of our classes for black, indigenous, and people of color first and foremost and those experiencing financial hardship or limited income as well. Please reach out to to request these ticket order codes.